Hello all,
Please be aware that this website is NOT good value for money. Take it from me, I have been here on and off for many years and have seen how the owners barely take care of it and never respond to enquiries or suggestions for improvement - ever! And don't even get me started on how outdated the majority of profiles are ..
The very best thing you can do is to leave some subtle clues in your profile so that you can be found using search engines ( if you are comfortable with that) It really works! Just be creative and think about how other people could find you by leaving a few clues here and there.
Then take the 30 pounds that you would otherwise have spent and go out for a really nice meal!